Does God Need You?

Recently I was wondering if God needs me. It seems silly now that I am putting it into words. He is GOD, He can make anything happen that He wants to happen and, me, I can’t get through the day without breaking something.

As I was pondering the issue my head was flooded with images of my wife and kids. I want them to know what a loving father is. I want them to see how a man should treat his wife and lead his family so it might be natural behavior for them later. I hope I can model how a man should walk with the Lord in his daily life.  God can use me to do all of those things but it is impossible for me to do it without Him.

God uses people to accomplish His mission. Obviously the same creator that made the “heaven and earth, the sea, and everything in them” could raise our children without us but that is not His way. His plan is that we are involved, we raise our children with purpose and under His instruction. Even if our children do not live under our roofs we have the same responsibility.

God could also bypass us and use some other means of calling our friends and co-workers into the kingdom. Amazingly, His plan involves us walking out our Christian lives in front of them, loving them and sharing our faith with them. His end of the deal is that He will prepare their hearts to receive the message. Even as we ourselves are learning to deal with the issues of our own flesh, He wants to use us to bring the His message of love to others.

Consider the people in your life, your family and the people you see regularly. These people make up your “oikos”. Oikos is an ancient Greek word that generally means “household”. Wikipedia says the modern application means people that regularly, “…share some sort of social interaction, be it through conversation or simple relation…”

These are the people who are potentially within our sphere of influence. God doesn’t need us to reach our oikos but He has called us to and we are each uniquely placed and gifted to have an impact within that group.

If each one of us would begin to pray for people in our oikos God will create opportunities for us to share our faith with them or maybe just invite them to church. If those people know you are a Christian, they are already watching you. They are wondering what is up with you and most of them have no idea exactly what you believe and why you believe it.  There are people you already know that are curious about your faith but probably would never ask you about it.

I have invited people to church and many have not come, some have. Most of the people I have shared my faith with didn’t immediately come to Christ, a few eventually did. Recently a former coworker sent me an email thanking me for telling him about Jesus almost 20 years ago. It didn’t immediately stick but it was a seed that grew. I know I need to do a better job of telling people about God’s amazing grace, inviting people to come to church and being more faithful with the opportunities I’m given. God doesn’t need me to do that but I feel the need to express my love for Him in that way. Ironically, I can’t even show my love for Him without His help. I need Him.

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2 responses to Does God Need You?

  1. 
    Patrick V. Robbins May 24, 2014 at 4:02 pm

    Hey Jim, brother– How have u been? Pat here (u know from Cape Vineyard) just wanting to say hey–miss ya–sorry I wasn’t around to say goodbye in person when you decided to leave for Houston..Hope things are going well there in your new digs; the importance of family can not be disminished in anyway, I (as well as the other guys of the men’s group) no this all to well. Will intentionally call you to mind forever in prayer & for your family. Please pray for me… (my brother recently tried to commit suicide) it is hard to comprehend why, what with the nature of our upbringing–I guess it is just one of those things that is hidden, then festers, and happens… pray for him to find Jesus..
    Best of “luck” in your new surroundings, and certainly, if u get back to SW Florida, drop by–u know where

    sincerely,
    Patrick “Pat” Robbins

    • 

      Thanks for the email Pat! We are settling in here in TX, found a church we really like and are working on getting seriously plugged in there. I miss you guys, your friendship, fellowship and prayers. I’ll keep you in my prayers and will be praying for your brother as well. Thanks again for the email Pat. God bless.

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